The Terrible Aftermath of Tsunamis
I almost lost my life well over a year after the world’s last massive tsunami.
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Love Hurts
There’s a well-known Roy Orbison song called “Love Hurts” that kicks off with these words: “Love hurts/love’s scars, love wounds and mars.”
While singer Roy Orbison was no marriage guru, his lyrics hit home. You feel pain when someone you love betrays or injures you. Certain actions or attitudes – unfaithfulness, selfishness, addiction — can wreak emotional and even physical wounds on a relationship that’s supposed to make you feel happy and safe. And when those wounds come from the person with whom you’ve joined yourself, heart and soul, in a covenant before God, the knife twists–and the pain increases.
The truth is, sometimes love hurts because we’re fallen creatures living in a fallen world. This broken world often hands us unwelcome trials – a job loss, a miscarriage, a chronic illness, a child with special needs. But sometimes our own needy nature causes us to inflict pain on our spouse by succumbing to volcanic anger, abuse, or an addiction (pornography, alcohol, even television). Whether it’s done unwittingly or intentionally, we damage our marriage when we go MIA emotionally, fight, or react to conflict in passive-aggressive or narcissistic ways instead of ways that honor God and resolve problems.
When your spouse hurts you, your marriage is hurt. And when your marriage is hurt, you hurt. It’s as simple and as circular as that, like the wedding band you wear. But God can provide hope, help, and healing. Check out the following articles to help you when love hurts — and your marriage feels the pain.
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The Anatomy of Adultery – Part Two
The deceptive thoughts tried to give credibility to the relationship…
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Why Can’t He Just Leave It Alone?
Most people assume they can take it or leave it. The truth is, pornography can be highly addictive.
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Move Forward by Putting the Past Behind You
It is amazing that God can forgive years of our sins that have ruined our relationship with Him.
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Fighting for Your Marriage — Part Three
In this third part we look at how we should resolve conflicts using the biblical examples and guidelines already observed in parts one and two. This article will also offer some practical ways in which resolution may be achieved.
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In Sickness and in Health
The promises of commitment to one woman, “till death us do part”, have weathered storms with gale force winds and a few bombing raids by enemy aircraft. I have developed a healthy respect for those promises made when it seemed nothing could go wrong.
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